Older women seriously dating younger men
Many African men also prefer women who have legal status that they can benefit from; hence, they tend to get married to westerners rather than Black African immigrants.The words of a respondent say it all: ‘The truth of the matter is, we do not have a very wide selection of African men to choose from as we (the single women) outnumber them (the single men) in this country.It has in fact become an abomination in many African countries for people from certain “rival” tribes to get married.Sadly, beautiful young women are missing the opportunity to get married to men they love, all in the name of tradition or tribal hatred.Sure, some may be a little hesitant about how to handle or be with a woman’s children, but it’s not always a dealbreaker. Any man who hates where he is in life and resents others for it is going to be a drag. Sometimes I’ll cover the check when he’s in a tough spot and I’m feeling like sushi.But as for not liking you simply because you’re whatever age you are? But if he’s young and he’s got plans, that momentum can be inspiring. If you happen to date a 25-year-old who just sold his start-up to Yahoo, then money is no issue. My boyfriend is a musician and composer who also works a part-time job, and he doesn’t have a disposable income. So no, he’s not springing for big dinners or trips to St. But the idea that a man will ciphon off money is only as true as the person’s character, not age.Guys like pleasing women and being enjoyed by a woman who appreciates them. I mean sheer energy—a bright, capable man who’s in the earlier phase of his career and life can be a thrill to be around.You know your body, what makes it tick, and what turns it on and makes it happy. I haven’t met a young man yet who said they would never date a woman older than him. He’s not jaded by losses, failure, or the spectre of retirement.
The problem is, you think that person has to be older than you. Just as chronological age doesn’t always “cure” one of immaturity, a man can be all of these things and still be 24, 28, 30 (depending on what you consider young). You’ve told yourself you don’t really want a younger man. Regardless of how sexually permissive and progressive we think we are, there’s still a bit of eyebrow raising when a woman dates younger. And when I tell people that (if they ask or if it comes up), I either get a lilting “Reaalllly” or a “You go girl!Why are many African women abroad now seriously looking for husbands or serious partners? Of the 25 women who agreed to be intensively interviewed, 15 were single, 5 were in serious relationships, and 5 were married. 25 out of the 150 initial respondents, then willingly and confidently provided profound information on single African women abroad.The Reasons so Many African Women Abroad are Single.Perceived shortage of decent men in the West: Almost all the women interviewed shared the opinion that it is quite uncommon to come across single men with good character these days.