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So he did and I never saw or heard from him until about 5 months later.He emailed a very sterile message telling me not to worry about giving back a few DVD's I still had because he's replaced them.You should be focusing on yourself and your own future rather than worrying about his.Whilst it’s unfair to generalise, some men are very much ‘out of sight, out of mind’ and because some won’t shed tears, hide at home and bury their heads in tubs of icecream, they will propel themselves back into the dating pool and ‘get on with things’ rather than dwell on the emotional fallout from the breakup.Often you’ll find that the reason it bothers you is because you have taken his actions as some sort of reflection on you and the past you shared together.It is easy to want to compare yourself to your ‘replacement’ and wonder what he sees in her, but the reality is that you’ll probably never know and you’re burning up energy better used elsewhere.

Instead of thinking ‘Oh sh*t, the bastard can’t have cared that much if he can get over me so quickly!In an ideal world, you’d be the one to get in first and have a new man to throw all of your energies into, and if you admit it deep down, you probably wouldn’t mind your ex hearing about how happy you are.But the reality is that it’s probably not going to happen like that and it’s a littttttle bit childish.I then met an amazing man whom I'm now in a serious relationship with and loving it.He's everything I ever wanted from the ex but didn't get.

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